Interview with Umber Dycone

	Thank you for agreeing to do this interview!
	You're welcome! I'm happy to do it, sweetie!
	So, why don't we start with a few simple questions about your background. How would you describe yourself, as a person?
	Well darling, that's a hard question... let's just say I am the sort of woman who is not afraid to love life. I love it, I love living my life... and I'm not afraid to enjoy it. I guess at heart I'm a pretty simple woman. It doesn't take much to make me happy.
	Could you describe what you do for a living?
	I'm not ashamed to admit that I am an exotic dancer. I'm a very physical person; I love my job, and I love putting on a show for anyone who wants to watch.
	Okay, great. Let's take some questions from readers now.
	Marie asks: Hi, My name is Marie and I was wonderring, was it always an opened relation between you and your husband or did you used to be less outgoing?
	Hello Marie. Yes, we've always been very open with our relationship, since we first started seeing each other. That's just the kind of people we are. I was lucky to find someone like him, who doesn't get hung up on the feeling jealousy.
	Rosie asks: if you weren't an exotic dancer what do you think you'd be doing for a living?
	Hmmmm... well, I also do a little prostitution on the side. But otherwise, I can't think of anything else I'd rather do. I've always made a living from using my body. It's just natural for me.
	Drew Fergeson asks: which would you say you like more, maytag or your boyfriend?
	It's husband Drew. He's my husband. And as for who I like more, well I don't like to answer questions like that. I don't like to make a contest out of love. However, I will say that my husband Dirk and I have been together for 7 years, and that the bond I have with him is very strong, and very deep.
	Iron asks: Umber, you seem to be perfectly happy with yourself and your actions, and you are obviously not ashamed of anything you do - but there have almost certainly been other people who you've met who did not look kindly upon your choice of lifestyle - do you get ridiculed a lot by people because of who you are, and what you do?
	That's a good question, Iron. I don't know if I would use the word ridicule, but certainly there are many people who look down on my choice of lifestyle. But that's all right. I don't choose my life for them; I choose it for me. It's my business afterall and not thiers. You can't live life trying to be what people want you to be, you have to be true to yourself.
	Kemmi asks: Umber, have you actually ever been in LOVE, not just having a fling or an infatuation (like so with Maytag), but actually true love?
	I am very much in love with my husband, Kemmi. Maybe you're right to say that what Maytag and I shared was only an infatuation. But remember... infatuation is the beginning of love! I think that Maytag is someone I could have grown to love very quickly...
	Sayuri Okimura asks: So Umber, where did you learn how to dance...and how is it that you manage all those high jumps and turns with a body shape like yours? No offense.
	Why would I take offense at that, darling? It's a very good question! I will tell you that what I do is completely, and totally, impossible... without the help of enchantments! Enchantments are a dancer's best friend, doll! You oughtta try! As for where I learned how to dance, in my younger days I apprenticed with older more experienced dancers. I didn't have much money, so alot of times we had to work out an alternative method of payment. I'll leave that to your imagination. (wink)
	Micheal Saumure asks: Oh Umbar dear? My question is simple enough. However do you keep your ample bosom within the confines of your delectable dancing attire when you perform such alurring acrobatic antics?
	I already answered that question, doll! I use enchantments, both on my body and my costume. They work wonders! And by the way Micheal, I appreciate your appreciation of my bosum...!
	Heiko Muller asks: are those real?
	(giggle) My sparkling eyes? I'm kidding! Yes, in fact I am blessed with these. They are not magically enhanced in any way, shape, or form.
	Blood Cry asks: What was it about Maytag that made her so attractive and how do you feel towards her now that she has refused your offer of being lovers?
	My my... that's a very deep question. Maytag is a beautiful girl... to be honest with you, I feel very dissapointed that she turned me down. But I'm not completely surprised... she seems like the type to not be tied down, at least not easily.
	Jojo Fine asks: Wow, you got some nice tits, anyway back to the question. How was Maytag? She is full of energy and I was just wondering if she was a good ride if ya' know what I mean! And one more question, ... ... Oh sorry, I forgot what i was saying, those titties are distracting. Oh yea, I know you got this whole "free love" thing goin' on. If I was to "get to know you", would your guy have to jump in? I dont have a thing for the same sex like you do. No offence.
	I'll have you know Maytag was a fabulous lay! I'd give you details, but I doubt very much you could handle them! I doubt you could handle me either...! Sorry, doll.
	Pizot asks: Since you can smell the unique scent of people what's the strangest smelling person you've ever met, and what did they smell like?
	What do you mean, darling? You can smell unique things too. Let's see... the strangest smelling person. Well I have smelled some bad body odor which knocked me down to the floor. That's one thing I can't stand. I won't talk to anyone with bad body odor, I won't even get near them. Hmm... I knew a man once who constantly smelled like roast pork. I can't say I liked that!
	Faith asks: You are so beautiful and young, you can get anyone you want. Then why is your husband so ugly and old?
	Ugly? You must be blind. To me he is very handsome, very appealing.
	Manano Ningyou asks: What's the origin of your name? I love it!
	Weelllllll... it's a mystery, to me also!
	Wesley J Young asks: Umber, you have nice hair, legs and oh so sexy eyes (ahem) well anyway, when and under what circumstances did you lose your virginity.
	Oh, that's a heavy question you asked, love. Thank you very much for the compliments, by the way. I'm afraid that unfortunetly I lost my virginity when I was very young... you see, I was raped.
	Tina asks: If you don't mind Umber, I'd just like to say that you make a great role model, not talking about your chosen profesion but your attitude towards life! I really like your fashion style by the way, my question is, do you design your clothes and shoes yourself? You'd make it big on the fashion market if you do! (I must have those shoes you wore the night you met Maytag!)
	Awww, I am so flattered! You're very kind! To tell you the truth, sweets, I don't think of myself as a role model at all. I don't think that most women would want to live my type of lifestyle. But that's perfectly all right... one size doesn't fit all, does it? As to your question, doll, my clothes are all custom made. I seriously doubt I have the patience to make my own clothes! (giggle)
	Jocelyn asks: 'ello Umber. How did you discover you're bi? I'm one myself and I think that's cool to see another one out there somewhere.
	I'm happy for you, doll! It's a wonderful lifestyle, isn't it? Now, let me answer your question with a story! My first experience with another girl was when I was fourteen years old... I had a very close girlfriend. Her name was Liopalda. She was older than me, and more experienced... very expirimental, and quite brash! She was a lot of fun to be with, and she had the most amazing stories! Then, one night during a rainstorm, she kissed me very suddenly. I think at that moment I realized how attracted to her I was... I went along with everything, letting her to make love to me. It wasn't even a question of bisexual... all I knew was that I had fallen in love with her. After that, we had a very fiery relationship for several months! It didn't work out, but I still remember her fondly... she was definetly a strong influence on me, and my lifestyle. Some might say a bad influence, but... a pox on them! (giggle)
	KimmyDC asks: Yo! Umber thanks for letting me talk to you. I really love the way you stuck up for your husband when someone said he was ugly. It's really what matters on the inside right? Love is like that huh? It matters who you are, and not what you are. Thanks for your time.
	You're right, but... I don't think he is ugly! I don't understand why you do... he is very handsome...
	Becca asks: About your eyes, are they naturally red, or is that another 'enchantment'?
	Enhancement? No, darling... this is my natural eye-color. It is rare to have red eyes, you know! I am very proud of them!
	Believe asks: Didn't you find it the least bit strange that both you and May have the same colored eyes when red irises are so uncommon? Had you actually become lovers, someone might think you're sisters!
	Well, they are rare... but not that rare! Actually, I happen to love red-colored eyes. Just another one of her many traints I found so delicious!
	Li asks: Well, *I* think you're husband's cute, too. Though I'm not sure I'd be willing to share like you. I suppose I'm a more jealous person. How old is he? And how old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
	(clasps hands together) Oh, thank you so much, darling! It's nice to hear someone finally say so! Yes, I think he is a very rugged and handsome, and I like that in a man! He is 43, and I am a young 26! Yes we like to share, but it's okay if you don't! It's not for everyone, love. Some people have trouble letting go of thier jealousy.
	Nickolas Gagne asks: hey umber i was wondering if when you were 15-16, did guys try to use you a lot? did it bother you if they did or was it just flattering to know they liked your body?
	Heh, well... it would probably be more flattering if they cared what was inside my head, but... guys want what they want! I learned that at an early age... as long as they are honest about what they want, I don't mind it!
	Pippy asks: Heya Umber, what would you say that you look for in another person? I mean, what makes you interested in someone?
	Hmmm, well... that's a tough one. It's a question I always have trouble answering... I'm not sure what it is about people that attracts me to them. It's something I just feel, and when I feel strongly about it, I pursue it. I think that's what all people should do. I think in a lot of cases, though, a person's physical appearance matters to me... and I like people who are easy going, and who know how to have fun.
	Tim Watson ask: hello Umber. i want to know if givin the choice of traveling with maytag or staying with your husband and work, which would you do?
	I would have to stay with my husband. But I would hate to make a choice like that! Given my preference, I would like to travel with both of them!
	Rae asks: You obviously have great self confidence and a love of the human body. Was this deterred in any way by you getting raped? How hard was it for you to get over that? If you don't mind me asking, that is.
	It was something I had to learn to cope with... I think that because of it, I had very little sense of self-worth when I was younger. That's something I've had to deal with as I've grown older. But I've been helped by people who love me.
	Tonbo asks: A lot of people are making comments on your looks and talents, and it seems to me you are pretty aware of both. But how is it that you are so open and accepting on everything around you? And so humble yet totally aware of your beauty and talents? What things in your life contributed to this? Thanx.
	Oh my, what a flattering guy you are! Most guys who stroke my ego like that want a little stroking back in return! That's what you want, isn't it sweetie? Hahaha, sorry. I'm just teasing you. I suppose I am beautiful and somewhat talented, but I'm afraid humility isn't one of my strong suits!
	Camille Hausner asks: Hello Umber, I wanted to know what you find atractive in girls. Lately I have been having selfesteem problems. I think I am fat. I also have bulimia problems. I am trying to stop cutting myself but sometimes I can't stop it. Well yeah... um... I guess what I am asking is have you ever had problems like that with yourself? I am really quite shy and people try to talk to me but I never let them. I don't want to talk to them. Part of this is because my last boyfriend used to do drugs and tell me awful things about me. Like "Your such a bastard" he would say this because my father isn't around. He would say other bad things about me to. How do I keep that from happening? Did you have an experiance like that? Thank you ~*~Camilla Avery~*~
	Hmmm... I'm sorry, dear. It sounds like you have quite a lot of problems in your life... I'm not sure if I can be of help to you, but I will try. First of all, you need to stay away from any guys who are abusive to you... even just verbally. You want a boyfriend who will love you, and not abuse you like that. As for your self-esteem... I don't have any easy answers for you. I hope that you will find good relationships with people who love you... that will help more than anything, I think.

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